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Mobinfo Motivated Muti mobile info processor End the relationship -[ LOVE marriage ] End the relationship Finally I made up mind to end the relationship with IAC, since he is not a good woman dirver and do not care and love me. He has been in the center of my mind for almost one year, I am so fansinate with him, he is so ubersexual in my imagination. I love him so much in mind. I did really take him as my family. He inspire and excited me a lot. But now, I have to stop this. He did not really love me and take care of me. He is a great guy, but just not for me, not fit my mind. Posted by Mobinfo at 2005-12-27 21:35:03 | Read More | Edit | Comments(0) | Trackback(0) Web2MarriageSNS&Mirage -[ LOVE marriage Web2 SNS ] Merry Christmas and happy new year! Thank you for all your support and care over the years as well. Tonight I've been to the Japanese restaurant to have a supper, then come back to have chat with one of friend online for almost two hours. I don't want to say, because I don't want to disturb ur mood. But as a friend, I'd like to share with you my mood. I felt very sad and painful from last night due to my own wishful mindset related with Iaac. It's pretty much like mobile episode directed by the famous Chinese director, but this really happened to me. U know, I have to talk to you that I have not been confirmed on Isaac's martial status, and I take for granted that he's single and quiet like me since we had lots of conversation in the first half of year. But suddenly yesterday I got a phone call from his wife, and told me he has been married and already has one child. And she force Isaac to tell me, no more message and email again. I could hardly accept this news. I don't know he is married and he never show me any hint, and always lead me to the feeling he likes me. But of course I also made mistake due to my eager for marriage, family and him. On another point, he is also not right, because he knows I am a very simple person and love him, I've been leaving message to him, he never stop me until yesterday his wife called me, my emotion has been accumulating and brewing for the whole year, it's crazy, Ican't understand why he did this for me. All of these is really just like a daydream or a mirage to me. He is the only Chinese man I love so much while treat me like this. Now I have no faith to the love, man and my own emotion. The fact shock my heart so much. I would stop and tell the fact if I were him, when I seen a person fall in love with me, but I do not, I will always speak the truth and how I feel. So, maybe, maybe, that' s web2style, everything is always in virtue world , always beta, and ever always been floating. Nothing is tangible. Everything is just a mirage, a day dream, a entertainment flock, a computer geek's fun. Web2means money, floating, fun, intangible. Who is ruling the game, the encode of the multi-to-multi community, what's the game about? Web2 is just a new game, a different rules for lifestyle and entertainment. Posted by Mobinfo at 2005-12-24 22:48:32 | Read More | Edit | Comments(0) | Trackback(0) I love him so much! -[ LOVE marriage Family Iac ] I love him so much! I love him so much since Feb of this year, for almost one year my emotion brewing, very sincerely. But last night I just got a woman's call, she asked me not to disturb her, she told me he has been married and already got a baby now. it's very ridiculars and diffilut to belive and accept for me. I felt it's like a movie. I can't belive this is true. But I have to accept the fact, if it is true. But, 100% true, now, I could not fall in sleep, difficult to breath for me. All my love has been growing on this man, why he just didn't tell me earlier very directly? Mind Trap, maybe, wishful thinking, I just fall in my own mind trap again, mind set trap, it's ur imagination and vision, ur mind power will drive ur wishes or vision true, but sometimes it might be dangeours in such virtual relationship. Iac is the only Chinese man I ever love so much, very sincerely, but God just tease me, what I CAN say, he already got a baby. I don't want to break his family, and he doesn't love me as me do, all is just my wishful thinking. I have to accept the fact which I don't belive it. Today I will check from one of his friends to confirm. No matter what, I do love him very much. It's my own mistake. I should ask this question as early as possible. I should figure the way and direction as early as possible. Love is so criticle to life, but it's so difficult to belive man and their love. Everything can be exactly directed as you wish, just like a episode, like a move, like a mirage, mindset traps, vision disorder. Posted by Mobinfo at 2005-12-24 07:37:16 | Read More | Edit | Comments(0) | Trackback(0) Did I really and simply make that stupid mistake? He's taken! -[ LOVE marriage ] Oh, my God Did I really and simply make that stupid mistake? Forgot to confirm his marriage status, if he is still single. I even don't know who is the lady tonight? U know, I don't mean to hurt anybody, that's not my intention at all. If u r really married, pls just let me know. It's ok. My mind will always have to stay in peace no matter what. But I need to be confirmed. Pls respect this point. Thank you! If u r really married and already has one child, then I just best wishes for ur family!!! Crazy! All of these is just like a dream, day dream, a mirage, finally it really turn out to be a mirage for me! A mirage in my real life! Posted by Mobinfo at 2005-12-24 02:22:36 | Read More | Edit | Comments(0) | Trackback(0) 主题: 写给自以为优秀的离婚女人[荐] -[ LOVE marriage ] 主题: 写给自以为优秀的离婚女人 [荐] 写给自以为优秀的离婚女人估计让很多女人看了不悦。。。首先我得声明的是，这个帖子是基于本人的以下几个认识，没有任何针对和攻击成分，倘若，你不赞同这些观点，那后边的你显然也没必要看的了。我认为，第一，如果男人不是个变态或者虐待狂，那么离婚，女人当然也有责任，而且得承担责任的大部分。第二，如果女人离婚后打算再婚的话，无论你的社会地位有多高经济实力有多强，你都是个折价品，第三，即使离婚了，曾经的夫妻也应该温柔地相待。第四，离婚后，待嫁的女人最需要做的事情是反省并调整心态。心态是最重要的，它直接决定你的幸福感知度。。。。读过《离婚的日子》，作者说，（不错，我是个离婚女人。可我不是弃妇，更不是怨妇。提出离婚的是我，是我请他下岗的。）我想说的是，离婚就意味着人生某方面的残缺，谁让谁下岗丝毫也不重要——毕竟，最后的结果是你们两个人都同时失业了。一个连幸福都搭进去一部分了却还在絮叨着（是我休了他）的女人，我很难想象在婚姻里，他的男人该怎样去面对她的耀武扬威和她的趾高气扬？我想，男人更多时候不过是个需要培养并极具潜能的孩子，他是否优秀，他成功与否，很大程度上取决于两个女人——其一是他的母亲，其二便是他的妻子。在这个男权的社会里，女人越来越难做，所谓优秀的女人，不要去抱怨你先生的窝囊，你要知道，你事业的成功很大程度建立在你对家庭对丈夫的渎职之上，你不能因为你表面上的风光而埋怨他底子里的不足。我始终觉得一个离婚的女人撇开她是否优秀不说，她至少不够智慧，这种不够使她无力做好职业女性跟家庭主妇这两个角色的切换。我记得曾经跟一位成熟且事业成功的男人聊天，我问他是否要找一个综合素质都很高的女人为妻子时，他说：（我要她的综合素质干嘛？她的干练她的坚韧她的实力那是她老板该关心的事情，我想要的，只是一个老婆，一个让我呆在她身边觉得舒服的女人而已。）婚姻中，女人的包容体贴低姿态显然比她每个月能够挣多少钱她穿紫红色的衣服时可以让多少别的男人掉眼球来得重要得多。在《离婚的日子》里作者还说，（离婚的最大好处，不用打理他的生活。不用为他做早点，熨衣服…虽然他住在我的房子里，尽管我一再赶他走。只是我暂时还不好意思叫警察，谁叫我善良呢。其实男人这东西，就是一个字！我就不说出来了，免得有男士抗议。）从文字里，我有理由相信，作者的前夫的确有让她跟他离婚的潜力，但是，我在想，这个男人除此之外会不会还有别的优点？如果答案还是否定的，那么我又在想，这么差劲的男人，当初作者是怎么摊上的？我一直主张，如果真是实在过不下去了，夫妻双方也该温柔地相待。这种离婚后描述对方的攻击性语言不只是显示数落人本身的素质低下，而且对孩子也极端不公平——因为你们的失误，孩子已经有机率比其他孩子不快乐，而你还要喋喋不休地攻击对他而言始终会是最重要的人之一的父亲——你觉得你是个优秀的女人吗？你是个智慧的女人吗？或者至少你是个负责任的母亲吗？坦白说，我并不是一个成功的女人，我的男人至今对我有这样那样的不满。我想说的是，在婚姻的角色里，女人可以具备很多特点，但是自恋自满则万万不该。当你卷起衣袖，系好围裙，你该想到的是怎么将家里的那位侍侯好，而不是边做边想，（为什么同样都得工作，他看电视我干活！） PS：个人观点。。。。本文地址： http://bbs.qq.com/cgi-bin/bbs/show/content?club=3&groupid=100:10003&messageid=319192 复制 Posted by Mobinfo at 2005-11-27 13:47:06 | Read More | Edit | Comments(0) | Trackback(0) 好想好想谈恋爱--女人极点 -[ Life, Love, marriage ] 女人极点好想好想谈恋爱 [2005-6-30 21:36:27]L says: I just watched the TV " 好想好想谈恋爱“ 三十一， ... 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